Tease is certainly the operative word when it comes to stoking her passions. Much as guys often view their performance along similar lines to their favourite footballer charging towards goal, females much prefer the stamina of a marathon runner. Of course, the idea of a ‘quickie’ may well be stimulating, but it’s far better to approach sex with a view to keeping her satisfied for deliciously long drawn-out moments.
Taking the time to be sensual will allow you to really hone your skills in caressing and soothing her, deftly working your fingertips over those intimate areas. Remember, there are many different areas in the female anatomy that can be interacted with to inspire protracted periods of pleasure. You can certainly begin with rubbing flesh around the thighs, the inner leg, or by stroking the back of her neck. Once you’ve got her suitably relaxed, you can slowly work your hands or mouth into those areas where the erogenous nature is even more extreme.
Much as penetrative sex is a fabulous turn on for both of you, she’ll get far more satisfaction if you can explore her most secret places with your tongue.
If you’ve ever wanted to know the secret of how to please a woman with your hands, think of two words. Soft. Hard. Either way is guaranteed to bring her to a frenzy of excitement. With more practice you’ll become an expert at alternating between the extremes, using either method to keep her satisfied.
When you begin delving inside her, subtlety is required at first. Much as guys can often approach lovemaking like a sprinting event, it takes women time to become fully aroused. They might not be completely moist down there, so if you don’t take your time you can inflict pain on what is a highly sensitive area. Pain is often very good in sex, but like anything else in the bedroom there’s a time and a place.
Once you’ve spent enough time exploring her, you’ll be able to tell by her movement and breathing that you can synchronize with her increasing urges. Then your own motion can become faster, harder.
Sex tricks don’t have to be restricted to the bedroom. Girls love a bit of spontaneity. Consider this scenario. You’ve been to a party on a hot summer night. You decide to walk home because it’s so balmy. She’s admiring the stars while you cut across your local park. Why not take her firmly by the hand and lead her into a secluded spot among the trees? Instantly you’ve transported her into some movie where Lady Chatterley is being ravaged by her gamekeeper! Seriously, sex outdoors is a common fantasy. If you demonstrate to her that you’re up for anything to satisfy her cravings, she’ll really appreciate it.
